The sexiest human trait that any male or female can possess
is an authentic sense of self-confidence. When you feel confident during
lovemaking, the whole experience will feel far better than it already is. Yet,
confidence is not acquired overnight for most people. Knowing how to gain
sexual confidence in the bedroom is a challenge at best. After all,
self-confidence is connected to so many variables in terms
of our sexuality and related behaviours.
Within the context of human behaviour, sexuality is deeply
rooted in your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual balance. It is a part
of your daily decisions whether or not you are conscious of it.
Do you doubt that lacking confidence in bed is a major
issue? If so, think again. A recent study found that heterosexual women have
fewer orgasms than any other group. One clear reason for this is the fact that
many women dislike speaking up. For far too long, every heterosexual woman was
urged from adolescence on to believe that her pleasure took a distant back seat
to her partner's.
The sole way to dispel this myth is by continuing this
ongoing, frank dialogue. Every woman on earth must actively step out of
"The Pleaser Role" into 'The
Pleased Role, which is a huge paradigm shift.
At day's end, if you do not enjoy what's happening in your own bedroom,
you possess all the power on earth to change it!
